Jessica Ferguson

Author, Writing Coach, Speaker

V is for Voices (and other things)

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I’m hanging in there with the annual A-to-Z Blogging Challenge. For more information on the challenge and its creator visit:   http://www.a-to-zchallenge.com

Can I just tell you that a whisper sounds incredibly loud in a house with no carpet? Voices… I’m always hearing voices… among other things. We had carpet everywhere, even our bathrooms were partially carpeted. Believe it or not, our baseboards in our sunken den were carpeted too.  (I love my new baseboards!) I suppose wallpaper in the kitchen and halls buffered sounds too.

What’s weird is that it’s not only inside sounds that echo and seem louder, its outside sounds too. Neighbor’s music and voices, birds tweeting and cooing, and the ice cream truck sounds like it’s in our driveway waiting for us to run out and choose a flavor.

Maybe things will change once we finish the furnishings–chairs, curtains, paintings on the walls. I hope so.

If you plan on getting wood floors throughout your house, you should know there’s going to be some echoing. And certainly more dust. Sweeping is a daily thing these days so you might do like we did–invest in a dust buster to chase those dust bunnies.

Any tips on how to buffer the sounds in our house? Have I overlooked anything?

U is for Undo

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I’m hanging in there with the annual A-to-Z Blogging Challenge. For more information on the challenge and its creator visit:   http://www.a-to-zchallenge.com

If you’re just tuning in to my A to Z postings, my theme is home renovation. We just renovated our house–a job that was supposed to last from four to six weeks.

We’ve spent a lot of money on our renovation. Unfortunately, we have less storage space (and more boo-boos) now than we did before Mr. Contractor got started. So, that being said, I have to admit that I’m not at a place–mentally/emotionally–where I really love what’s been done. With the exception of the bookcases and my dining room, I’d UNDO much of what was done. I’m trying to be appreciative and thankful. Maybe later–once I’ve licked my wounds and forgotten the name of the contractor.

Is there anything you’d UNDO–that really can’t be undone? How’d you deal with it? Share with me.

T is for Terra Cotta

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I love terra-cotta…terra-cotta everything: the color, the flower pots, and anything else terra-cotta might describe. So it wasn’t too odd that I’d want a terra-cotta room. I just didn’t know what shade of terra-cotta. I kept going back to the cover of this magazine but wondered if it would be too much.

If there’s one thing Mr. Contractor did right it was to show me a room that had been painted terra-cotta, and I loved it. So here’s my dining room.

When we started our renovation, we got rid of a lot of furniture. We had planned to buy a new dining room table, but after looking and pricing, I couldn’t find anything I like. Thankfully, I still have my dining room table and plan to chalk paint it. Any suggestions on color? Below you’ll see a picture of the rug I purchased so please visualize a color that will be neutral enough for the rug and the walls … but still pop.

And then Mr. Contractor told me that I need to have at least one thing in the living room that was terra-cotta, just to sort of carry over and tie the rooms together. Right or wrong, I walked into Home Furniture and fell in love. Believe me when I say, it called my name. Doesn’t it look beautiful just sitting there in the middle of all those drab colors? What’cha think?

We’re still buying furniture. I need a couple of chairs for the living area, dining room chairs for the table I plan to paint and I’m going to paint a huge coffee table too. Wish me luck!

S is for Shower

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Today is S day and S is for shower.

Mr. Contractor was a force to be reckoned with in our bathrooms. To recap: He busted the toilet and used gorilla glue to repair. He tightened the faucets so tight that he stripped them and they leaked. And … and… he took it upon himself to raise my shower head about a foot. What possessed him?

I didn’t call his hand on it until he started work on the second bathroom. Remember, I’m not a confrontational person so all I said was, “Don’t raise the shower head. I like it where it is.” He proudly stated–yes, proudly: “I raised the one in the master.”

I said: “I know, and really, I don’t like washing my hair every time I take a shower.”

Mr. Contractor, laughing. “You’re just like my wife.”

What did that mean?

If you’re getting your shower retiled or updated, and you don’t want the shower head raised, you’d better be smart and say so.

R is for Roughing it and Roughing it in!

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I’m hanging in there with the annual A-to-Z Blogging Challenge. For more information on the challenge and its creator visit:   http://www.a-to-zchallenge.com.

Mr. Contractor made renovation sound so incredibly easy. Oh, yeah, easy for him. He could go home to a clean, organized house, while hubby and I holed up in the back bedroom, trapped like rats.
For months, we ate every meal out. It sounds like a woman’s dream to not cook but it gets old. Eating out is more fun when it’s my choice—not mandatory.
As for clothes … we couldn’t find a thing. Everything we owned was in boxes, piled in a stack on a bed, or in the middle of a floor. When Mr. Contractor was ready to demolish a particular room, we had to move all our piled up clothes to another room, one he’d finished. To date, I haven’t even found all my clothes because we still haven’t unpacked boxes or organized our closets. Maybe my missing items ran off with my washroom doors!
While we were roughing it, Mr. Contractor was roughing it in. He built walls and tore some out. He had a good laugh about how my dining room had a weird opening that led into our den, and talked me into letting him enclose it. Do you think a contractor should make fun of his client’s home?
I guess his enclosure actually made the den and the dining area seem larger–though it wasn’t on my list of things to do. But neither were a few other things. Our little contractor took some liberties, and I’ll tell you about one of them on S day.  See you then!
 

Q is for Questions

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I can’t believe we’re on Q already. As you can see, I’m hanging in there with this annual A-to-Z Blogging Challenge. And believe me, it hasn’t been easy! For more information on the challenge and its creator visit:   http://www.a-to-zchallenge.com.

I’ve covered this in all my posts I think, but Q can be for nothing other than Questions. No matter whether you’re renovating a house, interviewing for a job or determining where you’re going on vacation, it’s imperative that we ask the right questions. I believe communication has diminished considerably. Why are people so lackadaisical about asking questions these days? Do they feel they’re prying? Maybe they feel all the right answers will be forthcoming. Not so. If you don’t ask ALL the right questions, you will not get all the right answers. What do I mean by right answers? The answers that matter to you–those that directly affect you.

Example: I know a lady who’s dad was in the hospital. She noticed he didn’t get a particular medication that he’d been getting days before. If she had assumed the doctors had changed his meds, hadn’t bothered to ask WHY, then she wouldn’t have learned that it was an oversight on the part of the staff.

Another example might be: you’re signing with an agent. You’re thrilled that one is taking you on but you haven’t asked many questions. If you don’t ask if there are hidden fees, charges or up-front costs, then you’ll probably be surprised a little later down the line. 

When it comes to asking questions, don’t worry about stepping on toes or sounding like you’re hard to get along with. We can’t expect our doctors, lawyers, contractors, dentists, agents, publishers, editors, nursing home staff, wedding photographers, caterers (and the list goes on and on) to actually remember to tell us all we need to know. ASK QUESTIONS! If you don’t know what to ask, get some advice from Facebook friends or Google “What to ask a contractor?” Knowledge is power. Don’t be caught off guard.  

P is for Paint

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I’m hanging in there with the annual A-to-Z Blogging Challenge. For more information on the challenge and its creator visit:   http://www.a-to-zchallenge.com.

If you’re just tuning in to my A to Z posts, I’m blogging about my home renovation. It wasn’t easy.

I’m a pretty lousy decision maker. One of the most difficult things for me was choosing paint colors. I knew what I liked, but I sure didn’t know how to pull it all together.

I go from one extreme to the other. I either like extremely neutral colors, or outrageously bold. 

You probably know that paint doesn’t look the same on the wall as it does on that little square of paper. Visualizing how a room will look with green walls … or blue … or yellow is beyond my capabilities. I wanted to say, “Paint the walls, then I’ll tell you if I like it!”

Painting a wall is a lot like cutting hair. Hair grows back and you can paint over the wall. With paint, there’s always a do over!

O is for Oven

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I got a new dishwasher, new stove top and a new oven. The oven is the problem. It’s incredibly LOUD! It blows air…though I’m not sure why. Something about a cooling fan inside. I didn’t choose the oven, Mr. Contractor did. Because he could get it at a great price and we were trying to cut expenses, we bought into this so-called dream oven, as he described it. Sadly, our oven came with no how-to book. There’s no doubt it was brand new. Here’s the tale we got about the missing booklet: Mr. Contractor had truck trouble. Because his truck was his office, he had the booklet to my oven there and somewhere between his son’s house, the towing company and the auto mechanic, my oven booklet disappeared.

Oh well…

The point is, there are buttons on my oven I don’t know how to use. Of course, I’m not a fancy cook so it does what I want it to do. I just wish it was a little quieter.

Anyone have an oven that sounds like an idling 18-wheeler?

N is for Newlyweds

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I’m so tired of talking about our renovation that I thought I’d use N for Newlyweds. After all, while the renovation was going on we were planning a wedding. Talk about stress. Here are some pics of the newlyweds–a cheery break from renovation!

Don’t even think about planning a wedding and renovating a house!

 

Happily Ever After!

M is for Monkey

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I’m hanging in there with the annual A-to-Z Blogging Challenge. For more information on the challenge and its creator visit:   http://www.a-to-zchallenge.com

When I made my notes for what I would write about during this A to Z Challenge, I wrote M is for Monkey Glue. Well… not far wrong. M is for gorilla glue but it sure made a monkey out of us.

Before we started our renovation, we purchased two new toilets and had them connected by a licensed plumber. During the renovation, Mr. Contractor disassembled them several times. In fact, he disconnected our guest bathroom way sooner than he should have. I mean living with one bathroom is definitely an inconvenience! I know, we’re spoiled, but I put toilets right up there with cell phones–a necessity!

During one of Mr. Contractor’s disappearing acts, our guest toilet started leaking. We tracked down Mr. Contractor and asked him to come fix it.  He did. This happened two different times. The third time it leaked was right before our bedroom flooded so when we had the real plumber in the house, we asked him to take a look. Guess what he found–our brand new toilet had been cracked and glued back together. Oh yes, Mr. Contractor had broken it and tried to hide it. That’s when we made the final decision to let Mr. Contractor go. He did not finish the job. He put us through a lot, but this was the last straw.

This contractor would NOT make a monkey out of us ever again.

When you renovate, you need a plumber for the plumbing. An electrician for the electrical work. Painters for painting. Expert floor people for putting down the floor.  When we hired Mr. Contractor, he told us he had an excellent crew. We didn’t know that crew was  him and his son. Of course he had to hire out the cabinets and stuff, but I’m sure he purchased the cheapest of labor.  Do your homework and know who will be working in your house … and their qualifications.

All day I’ve been singing:

“Hey, hey, we’re the Monkees and people say we monkey around
But we’re too busy singing to put anybody down

We’re just tryin’ to be friendly, come and watch us sing and play”
 
Don’t monkey around when it comes to plumbing!